Sunday, January 26, 2014

Shower Me With Your Love

So... It's almost that time of year again! You know the time I'm talking about! The time where many break ups happen and men go broke trying to impress women and women gripe about receiving or not receiving flowers or candy or whatever it is they highly anticipate. Yep. That's right, I'm talking about Valentine's Day, the day for lovers. Here's my thing though, while I absolutely LOVE Valentine's Day and all things romance, I don't understand why people would think that going out of your way to make someone feel special should be reserved for this one day! Let me explain something to you, showing love and appreciation for your partner show be an everyday thing meaning Valentine's Day should be one of many days where you show love to your significant other. And ladies, I am NOT speaking only to men. Valentine's Day is NOT a holiday for women, it is a holiday for love. You should be romantic and affectionate to him just as much as you want him to be that way to you. Men may not want you to buy them flowers and teddy bears, but you can cook his favorite meal, go out and buy some new lingerie to model for him, initiate sex sometimes. Don't let Valentine's Day or any other show of appreciation or love be one sided. Men need to be shown they are loved, too. And fellas, don't be a coward and break up with a girl simply because you either don't have the money or desire to buy her something for Valentine's Day. Stop playing games, you either want to be with her or you don't, just be upfront. And strive to make each thing you do for her better than the last thing you did for her, never stop trying to woo her. That also goes for the ladies. Just saying, if you've got somebody you love and care about, let them know with your words and actions each day not just on special occasions.

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