Never Trust A Single Woman Around Your Man

I've always been told, as I'm sure many others have, too, not to trust single women around my man. Now I do happen to believe in this one as even the strongest me the strong can fall prey to temptation. I'm not saying all single women are whores out to steal somebody's man because I know that's not true, but I am saying if you have single friends, family members, neighbors, etc don't extend your trust too far.

Do Women Really Change Once They Get The Ring?

So, what I've been hearing lately is that one of the reasons so many men are afraid to make the ultimate commitment and walk down the aisle with a lady is because she turns into some type of monster once the ring is placed on her finger. Now, I can not say whether or not this is true as I myself am not married and am not close enough to anyone who is married to have heard many horror stories. However, it would be my guess that even if it's the smallest of indications, a woman gives off SOME type of indication that she's not who she appears to be. But once again I can not say for sure. What I can say though, is that I'm certain men have some part to play in this as well. Everyone sees things from their own point of view as they are the only person whose eyes they can see through. All I can say is, you have to be sure you take heed to anything said by those closest to you about your potential spouse, and most of all pray and ask God for guidance BEFORE taking that step. Marriage is a big deal, and I'm certain it's something you only want to do once. So YOU let me know. Does a woman REALLY change once she gets that ring?

The Best Way To Hold A Man Is In Your Arms

Alright, so we're always hearing about how women need attention and affection and whatever else, BUT what about the men? As we all know Valentine's Day just passed and I know that a few of the guys didn't get much of anything IF they got anything at all, while they were busting their butts to get something special for their girls... And if you've been following my blog, you know exactly how I feel about that. My point is though, as I've also stated before, we should treat our men like we want them to treat us. Did you know that showing a man the kind of affection you want shown to you actually has benefits for him? A study was done on men who either kissed or did not kiss their wives every morning and the results for men who kissed their wives were very positive. Here's some of what was listed; they live an average of five years longer, are involved in fewer automobile accidents, are ill 50 percent less, as noted by sick days, and earn 20 to 30 percent more money. I said all that to say, show your man some attention. Let him know how much you still enjoy being close to him. Men like to feel loved, too and as I have said before, what you won't do another woman will. Remember that.

What Exactly Is The Way To A Woman's Heart?

Funny how you always hear the saying "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach", but you never hear anyone telling you what the way to a woman's heart is. Although I am certain many feel they could easily fill in the blanks with money, chocolate,  jewelry, or whatever it is that people feel women love, but I think the real reason no saying has been made to tell you the way to a woman's heart is it's not such a big deal for a man to capture a woman's heart. In fact, it could be argued that it's fairly easy to capture a woman's heart. Another factor to consider is the complexity of women. Men themselves have admitted that they are far less complex than women and typically the way one man thinks or feels is the way MOST other men will think or feel about a situation. Women are much more diverse so while one woman may be completely fulfilled as long as she's taken care of financially, another may not be happy unless she feels you fit in perfectly with her very conservative lifestyle. What are your thoughts on this? Should there be a saying to let men know the way to a woman's heart? Or is it so painfully obvious that it doesn't have to be said?

Is There A Such Thing As Too Much Sex?

Now, many of us believe you can never have too much of a good thing, however, those who believe this should listen to the other side that says everything in moderation. Sex can definitely be fun and exciting and people love to engage in it often. It's been said, mostly by older people considering they probably have more experience, that too much sex can wear your body down. It's kind of hard to believe this since you hear so much about the benefits of having sex/ a healthy sex life. BUT there actually ARE risks involved with having sex too much within a short period of time and unfortunately ladies, most of the risks are directed at us. Anything from fracturing limbs to UTIs can result from too much sexual activity. This isn't to discourage you from having sex, as having a healthy sex life IS definitely beneficial, but it is to ask you to be careful when you do decide to engage in such activities. But just to give you a few examples of what could happen... swelling/ soreness "in that area", pulling muscles, heart attack, inability to reach or complete orgasm, etc. But what do you think? Do you believe any of this to be true?